Talking to the privates
If you really want to get real on this sensitive topic, be adult about it. If you are not adult enough, not male friendly/supportive, leave now. Seriously, fuck and off you go…
For the rest of us, we know that pressures of the world make us worry over our appearance. To the point that some people spend years, decades, wondering if they are right for the world this pressure is coming from. You are not alone.
When it comes to it, as one dying friend said, who gives a toss about libido?! Vain pictorials of manly men strutting their stuff making whimps of the world pay attention. The old sex movies on tapes with purposefully (s)trained and overfocused dwangs. Seriously? That’s supposed to be your comparison? No. It’s not. It was the 60’s – 90’s misrepresentation of what it takes to be a man. I have a different concept of that. But that misrepresentation seriously fucked up a good two generations of people. And the consequences last to this day.